Letters To Our Children // January // Liora + Sayings

Missy learned to climb out of her bed a few weeks ago. The 15th was the first time she started coming out at bedtime.  The next day she decided she wanted to sleep in the big bed in her room. This week she decided she wanted to sleep in Mateo's room. SO? What do you do, but go with the flow.

The 8th I had decided to move Liora into Mateo's room. Now he's sleeping in the big bed in her room, which actually was his bed before we moved and she is sleeping in 'his' room (I had planned to call it their room) in the toddler bed.

Since bedtime is a drama, naptime is also somewhat of a drama. Needless to say, we are down to 1 nap.


A day she snuck down out of bed

On the 8th I also started potty training. We went and bought Frozen panties. I tried the "be-with-them-all-day-don't-let-them-out-of-your-sight" method. Sort of worked, but not really. Like the 2 times I went out of the room, she peed on the floor.  I tried a few other days, but decided to postpone. No need to stress myself out, right?

Liora's life is her babies. It's really cute how she says what they are doing. Normally they do what she wants to do. Make sense.

I started a photography class last year, so my goal for this year was to post 1 photo from my camera per week. The last 2 years most photos have been on my phone.

I just read the post of Mateo's 27 months. It looks like they both cut their morning nap at the same time. It's hard to adjust right now, but I should be glad for how long she has 2 naps.

She does also the same thing as in identifying what is from whom.

Liora taught herself to put her jacket on how they learn it hear at school. Very convenient!

We have a little helper at the moment. Unloading the silverware, putting clothes in the hamper, sometimes cleaning up the toys, wiping up messes, putting things in the garbage.

Liora is also talking and talking. I need to start writing down more of what she says.

Kom een keer
Mika tuutje (because he was crying)
Mika spanking
Mika wakker
Lola wil niet slapen
Lekker, yummy
Alina (for Aline)
Lola chuch sing
Filmpje kijken
Protje gelaten
Hairs (for hair)
Toes, tummy, eyes, nose, ears
Boots (one of her favorite words)
Bang, scarwd
Noepie (snoepje)
Lola mee
Pwincess
Baby nigh night
Baby eten
All done
Op
Juice, milk, water
Noodles, friejtes, Donalds, chicken, boterham, tilla (tortilla), ketchup, raisins, bina (banana)

She's 2

Yesterday Liora turned 2. Our not-so-little baby girl. We celebrated a few weeks ago, but yesterday we still had to do something to make the day special, so we invited a few people over for the rest of her birthday cake.

Liora is a (put very by every adjective) independent, bossy, knows-what-she-wants, talkative little girl. I call her our diva.

To quote,

"There was a little girl
 Who had a little curl
 Right in the middle of her forehead.
And when she was good
She was very, very good
 But when she was bad She was horrid!"

She can make us laugh with her dramatic take on life. She gets very excited about babies and is always telling us what she sees.

At her recent visit to the doctor, we saw that she is now perfectly average for her height and weight. This makes mommy happy. She's gained some weight! 11.7 kg and 85 cm. She wears size 22 shoes and size 86/92 clothes.

Liora is still a good sleeper. Pretty soon we'll be down to one nap every day. Right now some days are 2 others, unfortunately, not.

Eating is hit and miss. It seems that she eats better with other people. She loves spaghetti. I noticed that she doesn't really like chicken or turkey and you can forget mushrooms.

Letters To Our Children // October // Liora // 23 Months

Liora turned 23 months yesterday. Terrible twos are early.

We have a smart little girl on our hands. Too smart. Smart as in she knows how to make her parents and brothers crazy. We'll just leave it at that.

She's interested in the potty, so I'm looking forward to having her trained at an earlier age than her brother was.

Liora can now open the doors and fridge. This month she started riding her little bike. She adores her dolls. They are her babies and she likes to change them, feed them, put them to bed, put a blanket on them, hug and kiss them and then start all over again.

She's grown and gained weight! Size 22/23 shoes, 83 cm and 12.2 kg with clothes on.

I started a photography class in September. I'm taking it with my SIL. I've already learned some great things. So here are some photos of the kids from yesterday, Liora's 23rd monthday.

Letters To Our Children // September // Mateo

Today was the first day of school. In Belgium they go to school from September 1st until June 30th.  I was pretty excited about school! Mateo seemed to have forgotten a bit about it. We left the 2nd week of June on vacation, so he had a long summer.

Daddy came to school with us today, which was special for Mateo. The school is celebrating 50 years, so they had a party-theme going on. Each child had their photo in front of an old timer. Curious to see them!

Liora seemed to sense the excitement. I decided to dress her up also for some photos. She loved seeing all the kids. I'm sure she wishes she could go. Next September...

Mateo is starting 2de kleuterklas or 2nd kindergarten.  For those who don't know, here they start school at 2.5 in a preschool class, then age 3, 4, & 5 are kindergarten.

Letters To Our Children // August // Liora // 21 Months

http://carriesaindon.blogspot.be/2015/08/back-to-school-2015-letter-to-my.html Link to the first letter in the small circle.

I remembered on Liora's 21 month day to take some photos. Just posting them 2 weeks later.

I checked what I wrote in June about her. She is the same height, but has gained a kilo! That's 2.2 lbs. I noticed that her face looks rounder and her tummy a bit bigger. It's nice to see her with some chub.

Her feet have also grown. I drove to a store to get her some shoes that were on sale. I checked online which store had size 20. I got there, asked the sales lady, she agreed it was a good size. The next day Liora refused to put them on, so I put them on and she screamed. I realized they must be too small. Took her back to the store and left with 22's!

A few weeks ago I took down the gate at the top of the stairs. The first time in probably 3.5 that we don't have a gate. Feels great!

Liora is starting to bike on our little plastic bike. She doesn't seem as sportive as Mateo, although she is a great climber. She goes UP the slide all alone.

This girl is TALKING! Today she said, "Mama, kijk, shoes." (Look at my shoes). She had drawn on them with a marker she found...she knows all the names of the cousins she sees the most. What else does she say? Seatbelt on, Shoes on, eat, drink, night night, bye bye, da-da, teeth (for wanting to brush her teeth), stom (stupid), horse, wa-wa (dog), fiets (bike), applesauce, cheese, apple, bana (banana), pee-pee, wet, hot, cold, open. Probably more, but these are what I can think of. These are the ones she says her self, but she copies the words and sounds that we make.

She's down to mostly 1 nap per day, but I'm hoping when school starts that we'll go back to 2 naps. I'll have to wake her up in order to get Mateo to school on time.

And now the photos of my 21 month DIVA.  Her skirt in the bottom photos I made from a woman's mini skirt I got from Freecycle :)

*edit* I thought I'd see if I posted about Mateo when he was 21 months, sure enough. Fun to compare.  Liora is talking WAY more. She also says kijk and more or nog. Funny thing is she also switches between languages for No. She'll first say it in one, then in the other. For emphasis? She also enjoys jumping on the trampoline, but isn't as brave. I feel like she's been climbing up the ladder more than a month, but then, now we own a swing set, so she has had more practice.  

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Happy 4th Birthday

Yesterday was the original Baby Belgium's 4th birthday! It was fun because he realized that he was finally 4. It was actually a peaceful day. Mateo had slept at Oma's the night before and we picked him up in the evening. There I gave him the card from my parents and a present. 

We had a little party in Canada when we were visiting. A few little friends and some family. A cute cake and some gifts. It was perfect. No stress.

Last Saturday we celebrated here with M's cousin together with the family that wasn't on vacation.

I decided instead of getting him a gift, we will plan a trip to an amusement park, just him and us parents.  The kid has been showered a month long with gifts. He didn't even realize that he didn't get to open anything from us. I did get him a €2 toy I'll give him when he wakes up.

The 4 year photos are still coming. He needs a haircut first *grin*

Babycenter told me basically that this year should be better than last year. Sounds good! Independence and understanding what's going on. Sounds like we are on track! (I just read what I wrote last year. I hoped we'd be conflict free...oh, dear. We deal with lots of conflict every day between the two kids)

I'm finding out Mateo is more sensitive than I thought. Maybe not to me, but to the rest of the world. He can tell if someone looks funny at him or if they say something hurtful (although it doesn't seem to register that he shouldn't treat people that way).

He's very active and good at sports. He loves his bike and now we've tried a few times where he bikes alone side us biking.  He will be attending 2 sport camps in August and we hope to enroll him in gymnastics when school starts. Something to burn off that energy.

I find him loud, but actually, compared to other kids, he's not much of a talker.

My last post was about his language skills. He's speaking more and more English, so that just makes me so happy.

Eating? Well, kind of hit and miss. Lots of discussion. Probably not what's supposed to happen according to one theory or another, but I hate hearing when he's in bed that he's hungry. Also, when I see an empty plate after all the discussion, I figure he really was hungry and needed the food I "forced" him to eat.  Not a big milk drinker, but neither am I. He loves fruit and does eat most veggies. No mushrooms or tomatoes, but tomatoes are a genetic thing...

Sleep. At night still about 11-12 hours. And a nap when we are driving in the afternoon or once or twice a week.

Mateo is still a big boy. Wears size 5/6, has size 28 (11?) shoes. He weighs 18.3 kg/40.3 lbs. Height still needs to be measured. What is funny is that he and his girl cousin who is 14 months older keep weighing EXACTLY the same. The last 3 times I've weighed they they have been on the dot the same.

We are very happy with our boy. I shouldn't say little, because he doesn't like that. I am going to try to enjoy this year, because I have a feeling after next year, everything won't be as cute and he won't be as excited over all the little things in life.

Fun at Grandma's

At least this child loves flying

Griffith Observatory

We {heart} California

His happiest place on earth, the ocean

Growing up! Santa Monica Pier

Made with love by mommy

Letters To Our Children // July

We are back from America. It was a full trip!

This month I am going to talk about my children's language skills.

Both of them had a "language explosion" this last month. I don't even know if that phrase is English or Dutch or one I made up.

Before we left Liora was chattering some and would often imitate sounds. During our time away, she started saying so many words!!! Every day we were laughing at what she'd say. I read an article on babycenter that said she should speak between 10 and 50 words. I decided to write down every word I heard her say. By the middle of the day we had 30 already.

For me it is strange, because Mateo was slower at talking.  We also noticed Liora started making 2 word sentences. Often along the lines of "Mama, look!"  She also is quite the little tattle tale *rolls eyes*.  Any time Mateo does something to her, she comes and says, "Mama, Teo mkqjkjqzerkjmqskerj."  The funniest so far, that I need to write in her book, but I'll write it here was a time we were driving. "Mama! Mama! Teo num-num." Normally I try to ignore her when I'm driving, but then I tried to think what Mateo would be eating, I hadn't given him any food. I turn and look and he was eating his boogies.

In general Mateo has been surprising me with how much he's been saying. It's probably  normal, but as I said, he has been a bit slower. Not that he couldn't perfectly communicate what he wanted, but he did it with few words. I am impressed with his word order in Dutch. It comes natural. Duh. But for me what is still hard to remember is normal to him.

People said that he'd start speaking English when we were in America. I was very doubtful. I told everyone he could understand. I left him with my parents and sister. Sometimes he'd be frustrated if they said they didn't understand him, so they just pretended they did.

After about a week if you told him something to say in English, he'd repeat it.  On July 3rd when mom got back with him she said he had been speaking tons to her!!! *happy dance* That last week he was speaking every day new words and phrases. Super cute, becuase he has a bit of an accent and his great Dutch word order he's using in English. It made me so happy that finally something clicked!  I asked him if he'd keep speaking it when we got back. He said he would and he has been the past 2 days. (As I'm typing, he said "Do this. Mommy. Do it NOW! I schiet (shoot) Daddy")

 

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